The Beautiful Hills of Kigali
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“Don’t panic. The office vouched for this guy and Mary said
she talked to him and he was close. He’ll show up. You’ll get to the office
just fine,” said the rational voice in my head as I watched Mary, the family
friend I’m staying with this week, drive off to her job at 8:30AM on Monday. “But
I’m locked out of the house! I don’t have a phone or a phone number to call the
office, I don’t speak the language, and I don’t know where I’m going. Plus, the
guy from the office said not to wait for the driver past 8:40 and it’s almost
that time!” said the panicked voice belonging to the girl who had been in
Rwanda less than 24 hours. “You really don’t have any choice but to wait and
see what happens. You know timeliness has a different meaning here. And
everyone said the city was very safe, so you’ll be fine waiting outside the gate,”
the rational voice responded. “Settle in and do some people watching. You're here to enjoy the
journey, remember?”
There wasn’t really any other option, so that’s what I did. Gisozi,
the part of town I’m staying in doesn’t have many foreigners and those that do
live there rarely spend much time in the neighborhood outside of their gated
and walled homes, so I definitely attracted a few stares as I stood waiting on
the sidewalk. The school children walking by were my favorites – many of them
would try out a shy “Good morning” and break into huge grins when I responded.
Rwanda just switched its education system to emphasize English rather than French in October 2008, which I think may be part of why young kids in
particular are excited to try out their English. The minutes ticked by, a few
motor cycle taxis, or motos, and minibuses stopped to ask if I needed a ride, and
soon it was 9:00. “Ok,” I thought, “You have to do something now. Either take a
moto down to the international bus station the office is near, or see if you
can borrow someone’s phone to call Mary, since you have her number.” Luckily,
as I was debating which option was less nerve racking, a battered maroon sedan
pulled up and the driver beckoned at me. Reasoning that there couldn’t be that
many other drivers in the area looking for an American standing outside a gate,
I walked over and he handed me his cellphone. To my relief, Mary’s voice
came out of the speaker. I got in, glad to find that while the open door light
seemed to be permanently on, the seat belt worked just fine, and we headed down
the hill to the office.
To get there, we walked back down the steps and across the
parking lot, then up a rocky dirt road. An old man guarding the gate said
something to both of us before unlocking the gate and Francine taught me my
first Kinyarwandan word, mwaramutse,
which means good morning. Greetings are very important here – before anything
can happen, you say hello or good morning to everyone in the room, often
shaking hands as a way to accompany the greeting. Handshakes here are quite
gentle, more a clasping of hands than the firm grip and up-and-down pump so
admired in the US. I’ve had to work hard not to be overly aggressive with the “good”
handshake I’ve worked to develop in my career and business school, and I’m sure
I’ll have to re-learn that one at the end of the summer to avoid the dreaded “limp
fish” when I return to the States. We continued up the hill, passing a few
goats and an avocado tree, while I reflected on the fact that I was very glad I
hadn’t worn my suede heels that morning but had instead opted for the much more
durable patent leather flats – the heels will probably spend the entire summer
in my suitcase. The workshop area is bright and open, with space to repair
lights and POWERCycles that get broken, a desk for the accountant, and a storeroom
for inventory. It’s quiet and breezy, but since there’s no internet access, I
can only work from there occasionally.
I spent the rest of the day getting settled in, doing a bit
of work on projects I’d started when I was working from the States, and getting
to know the people in the office. Everyone is very nice – they helped me get a
Rwandan SIM card for my phone, figure out why the internet wasn’t working, and
add more money to the account to buy a data plan. By US standards, data is
quite cheap: you can either buy unlimited weekly data for RWF4,000 (about
$5.75), or get 5GB of data to use within 90 days for RWF15,000 (about $21.50).
I opted for the weekly unlimited to get a sense of how much I’ll be using my
phone – wifi is not at all common here, so pretty much all of my internet usage
outside of the office will be through my phone. I did spend most of the day
feeling like an adult trapped in a child’s body – I knew what I wanted to do,
but couldn’t really communicate it to anyone and needed other people to tell me
what to do, show me where to get lunch, how much to pay, etc. While the field
staff are always willing to help me out, they’re not always so good at teaching
me how to do or say things so I can eventually do them on my own, so that’s
been a bit of a challenge.
Before I left, I talked to several people who had worked
with Rwandans before and almost universally they told me that it was very
important to build a personal relationship with your colleagues in order to
develop trust and make them feel comfortable disagreeing with you. I spent a
good part of the day talking with the local staff and it was amazing to see how
they lit up as soon as I started talking about my family or showing them
pictures on my phone. They began to open up to me about their lives as well, and
I heard all about their wives, children, girlfriend problems, and more. I also
had my first reminder that as an American, I am expected to be an authority on
everything in the US: I got peppered with questions about gun control, the
death penalty, economic opportunity, and the cost of living, which I tried to
answer as best I could. I’ll definitely need to be keeping up on current events
in the US while I’m here!
I’ve settled into a routine pretty quickly here: mornings
are spent in the shop, listening to the rapid fire Kinyarwandan conversations
among the staff, the whirring of the POWERCycle, and the honking and bustle of
the busy street outside. I brought my own computer and I’ve carved out a bit of
space on the desk, though I still feel like I’m always in the way. This week, I
ate lunch at a few of the different restaurants in the building around the
office – they’re good, but don’t offer much variety. Rwandan food is tasty, but
very heavy on the starches – you typically get a plate of rice, fries, green
bananas, pasta, etc. and then a separate serving of meat, beans, or on rare
occasion, vegetables. I’m hoping to start bringing my own lunch one I move into
a permanent spot, but that’s not really part of the culture here, so we’ll see
how it goes. I’m hoping they’ll be willing to indulge me. In the afternoons, I’ll
typically move up to the workshop to escape the worst of the heat and spend
some time summarizing what I’ve learned that day or reading through resources I
found and downloaded in the morning. Everyone leaves at just about 5:30 on the
dot.
Great blog, Therese. Keep them coming so I can vicariously live through you...
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